I am so sick of these people who do not have kids but feel the need to tell me how to raise mine. I'm sorry but how do you think you know better than I do when it comes to MY kids. Or to anyones kids at that when you have NEVER had one of your own???
There is no parenting handbook. Im sure all parents wish they had done things different and the more kids we have the more we change our parenting ideas and ways.But it is not always easy. I tell all my friends who are pregnant or thinking about getting pregnant to make a list of how you will parent, how your kids will act, and how you see you life. Read it over and then throw it out. Because it is not going to turn out that way. You have no idea how your child/ren will be. How their personalities will be. How easy going or uptight they will be.
Are my kids loud. UM yes they are kids! Do the whine sometime..of course. DO they "forget" to listen... more than I would like.Are the boys rough...duh they are boys...and I do not help because I love to wrestle with them. But they are my kids. They are not perfect and I am not a perfect mom. I am doing the best that I can
( although Im sure there are days I could do better)But I know that I do better than non parents. I know that I do better than anyone else for my kids. We might not have the biggest house, or a money tree in the back yard, but my kids are happy, healthy and somewhat spoiled. (I hate to admit it, but its totally true) I give my kids everything I can. They get to have me around all day which I think is a huge advantage to them and me as well.
So when you have children than maybe you will understand. You will understand why dome days are so frustrating and you constantly look at the clock until bedtime. ANd other days are so much fun you don't want the kids to have to go to bed. But you are not a parent so please dont act like you know more than I do. Or that you know what is best for my kids!
No comments:
Post a Comment