I don't understand all the complaining I hear from parents. Is it really that hard? Am I missing something? I do not think having and raising kids is impossible but it seems like some people really can not figure it out. Are their days when I am exhausted? Of course. Are there days when I want to pull my hair out? Of course! Are there days when we have a lot of fun and I do not want them to end? Of course!But it is a package deal and I knew what I was getting into every time I decided to have a child.
And when people talk about how they have no soc ail life or no sex life I feel like I just want to slap them. Did you think once you had kids you could still go to the bar all the time or just leave whenever you wanted to and go hang out with someone? You still have a social life its just different. Instead of drinking you hang out at the park or the pool. Or you get a babysit and go out with grownups. And if you have no sex life them I am sorry but kick the kids out of your bed and sleep next to your spouse!
And running errands! I hate people who complain that they can never go to the store, or the mall or whatever errands they may have. Its not that hard. I do it every week with 3 kids and all it is is a juggling act.It can be done just try it!
Parenthood is a JOB! it is a 24-7JOB that never ends because even when your kids are out of the house and grown up they are still your kids and you still want what is best for them. And if you did not know this before you had kids or can not handle it now than maybe being a parent is not for you!
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