Friday, July 23, 2010

good friend

So I am actually going to change a name because I do not know if this person wants to fully be in the blog.
I have a friend, we will call her Donna. We became friends about 2.5 years ago due to the fact that we both have kids and similar personalities. Well this is why I like Donna. And just for the record she also got the approval of my mom after about 15 mins so that's always a good sign.
Both of us are SAHM and we understand that it is a very fun yet exhausting job. And yes, it is a job! We also have boys that are close in age and seem to be going through some of the same stages when it comes to behavior. Now what is awesome is the fact that I can call or her vice versa and let he know when Alex is being a brat or she can tell me when her son is being a brat and we do not judge each other. We do not tell other people that each others kids are brats we just understand that some days kids will try your patience until you think you might be sent to a mental institute for going insane.
We also are able to talk about any issues we might be having with our husbands and once again not judge or gossip. I have very few people that I will call and bitch about Rob too, and she is one of them because I know she is not going to blow it up to be something it is not.
I mean lets face it, sometimes you get annoyed with your spouse. And especially when you are SAHM because you have your way of doing things and when they are not done or done differently it can be frustrating. And after a very long day sometimes you want to be able to put your feet up and have someone else clean up the toys. She gets that. So when I call her and complain about Rob, or vice versa, she listens, as do I and we just chat. No bullshit,no gossip, no stupid highschool drama.
And that is why I like my friend "Donna" :) Oh and since her personality is a lot like mine that also gives her bonus points in the awesome department! :)

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